my existence is not a weapon
against those i love

 

 

thank you, Johanna, for helping me understand the ways that in-betweeners like myself are used against transexuals.

my existence, as a person who in some way embraces and rejects the categories of both male and female, is not a rebuke to the lives of transexuals.

i do not believe that everyone should embrace and reject the categories of male and female.

i do not believe that transexuals have the responsibility to repair gender for the entire world.

i do believe that transexual women have the right to enter women's space.
that transexual men have the right to enter men's space.

in particular, transexual women have been crucial in the creation of women's space. some of the most committed feminists, some of the most activist dykes, some of the hardest workers in creating women's space, have been transexual women. for nontransexual women to attempt to exclude transexual women from these spaces is vile. completely, utterly, vile.

and for them to say that i--because of my height; because of the fact that i was born with a cunt; because of my high-pitched voice; because of the accident of my birth--have more of a right to enter women's space than transexual women have--

well that's not only vile, it's idiocy.

 

jetboy jetgirl

not your father's
tampon

talking about
gender with my
brilliant friend
hanna

my existence is
not a weapon
against those i
love

matthew,
brandon, tyra, me

sorry

hot pink, leopard
print, lame?

open letter to
anything that
moves magazine

pinnochio

bisexual bigendered performance art thing


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